When a scorpio man says stuff when he gets upset or during an argument?
Question: but afterwards when things are calmed and settled or when things are going fine, his actions say the opposite, which should I hold him to and believe??? During those moments, he will say that he doesn't want this forever, he doesn't want to get his feelings involved, we can't go any further than this, and if we don't keep it simple, he doesn't want it.........but at other times, these words don't match his actions which is sweet, caring, protective and loving.
Answers: Ummm. . . . . . . . When things are calm, ask him about the things he said when he was angry. Tell him that what he said really hurt your feelings, and you want to know why he said those things. Wouldn't put too much into the Scorpio thing either. Men (AND women) who are born in ANY month can and do act this way.
He is using you and doesn't want to find another GF. He really has little respect for you or the prospects of a long term relationship. He is just saying what you want to hear when he is not pissed. But when he is pissed, he says what he really feels. Scorpions will sting without warning. Watch yourself!
Water signs are loving, caring, nuturing, hotheads.
Their very defensive, and often say things they don't mean because their very explosive. Jealousy and insecurity plagues them. Emotional and Intuitive. So, if he thinks there is a possibility you'll leave. He wants to beat you to the punch. Not because he's a jerk, but because he'll get really hurt. It will effect him more than you, if you break up.
My mom always told me: Don't believe what a man says, believe what he does. And thats' the best way to get to know someone.
Being a scorpio myself, I know that through anger my mouth goes way past my thoughts.
Believe what he does.
I see this person is like a bomb exploding when angry.He has some problems from early child hood.That he needs to let go.I would try to get some help like a therapist.and you should belive him when he is in a good mood.when he is angry he dosen't think only acts on his anger.
I am dating a Scorpio and I notice he tends to jump the gun quite a bit when he's angry. A good 98% of the time, this man is caring, nurturing, sweet and sensitive-- but if he is put on the defensive in any way, shape or form- watch out! His typical defensive reaction usually involves him trying to raise the stakes in some way, typically by throwing out some absurd comment accusing me of what I obviously must really want if I'm arguing with him. Usually, he threatens to just flee the scene, since I apparently don't want him around, because I am arguing with him. Obviously, this is a ridiculous conjecture, but it seems that Scorpio men tend to bristle when they feel attacked (whether you intended to or not) and try to sting you as painfully as they can before they flee (which they do because they're very scared that you're going to hurt them). My best advice is to ignore his ridiculous statements during the heat of the moment, because all people- regardless of their sign- tend to say things they don't mean when they're angry. In addition, if you realize that he's just lashing out because HE is the one who's insecure about how YOU feel, it will give you a lot more control internally during the argument, which will allow you to be a lot more understanding during his tirades and give you more time to cool down and not fuel his temper even more.
I agree with hopeful city girl!!! Sounds like my Scorpio exactly.................when he is offended, insulted or angered, he tends to lash out due to his sharp tongue and intent to hurt you before he is already injured or before you hurt him. They are very sensitive soul no matter how strong they seem on the outside. Learn to read beyond the words and understand the hidden messages. Then, you will get to really know him. If his words don't match his actions when not in the heat of the moment, then you can bet on what he does, not what he says. Notice that if you ask him to repeat certain things that he said, he won't, pretend he doesn't remember what he said or dodge it somehow because he didn't mean to say those things. He doesn't want to hurt you, but he is just upset. If he is still with you all this time, don't question it too much. Let him know later how it made you feel, but do try to understand his ways.
i was once married to a scorpio and i did see that their profile is true ..they are affectionate and caring as a scorpion seems to his prey but then they do have that sting in the tail. I think he means both sides of himself . Its rare to get mad but when they do ...wow
If Scorpios feel attacked or taken advantage of, they lash out.
Most everyone says things they don't mean when they're angry, especially Scorpios. Most everyone says things they don't mean when they're NOT angry, except Scorpios. Ask him about his explosions when he's calm. Or, for an interesting twist, ask him about when he's calm while he's on a tirade (sparks will fly, but it can be surprisingly enlightening).
For a Scorpio to not want to involve his feelings goes against everything about the sign. Everything! And obviously if he's that angry, his feelings are involved. So keep that in mind for perspective. Pure conjecture here... but he might be trying to force a major declaration of love out of you. By saying he wants to keep it simple , he could very well be hoping to make you demand the opposite... Scorpios like knowing where they stand with people.
Meh... As for the arguments... probe a bit to find out which side he means. Though it's probably the softer side. As for people making conjecture about issues based on a small paragraph... meh. You know him and know whether or not he's worth it or the good outweighs the bad... no one else does. It's *your* relationship. So suss that out for yourself (but keep a clear perspective on it).
When things are calmed and settled down ask him why he said the things he said when he was mad and angry. You should tell him that he really hurt your feelings with the things that he said to you and that you would like to know why he did say those things to you. Maybe he it is just his way of telling you that he wants out of the relationship. Just be patient with him and try to work things out with him. Give him a little time alone.
Horoscopes are a scam. Signs don't mean anything.
Answers: Ummm. . . . . . . . When things are calm, ask him about the things he said when he was angry. Tell him that what he said really hurt your feelings, and you want to know why he said those things. Wouldn't put too much into the Scorpio thing either. Men (AND women) who are born in ANY month can and do act this way.
He is using you and doesn't want to find another GF. He really has little respect for you or the prospects of a long term relationship. He is just saying what you want to hear when he is not pissed. But when he is pissed, he says what he really feels. Scorpions will sting without warning. Watch yourself!
Water signs are loving, caring, nuturing, hotheads.
Their very defensive, and often say things they don't mean because their very explosive. Jealousy and insecurity plagues them. Emotional and Intuitive. So, if he thinks there is a possibility you'll leave. He wants to beat you to the punch. Not because he's a jerk, but because he'll get really hurt. It will effect him more than you, if you break up.
My mom always told me: Don't believe what a man says, believe what he does. And thats' the best way to get to know someone.
Being a scorpio myself, I know that through anger my mouth goes way past my thoughts.
Believe what he does.
I see this person is like a bomb exploding when angry.He has some problems from early child hood.That he needs to let go.I would try to get some help like a therapist.and you should belive him when he is in a good mood.when he is angry he dosen't think only acts on his anger.
I am dating a Scorpio and I notice he tends to jump the gun quite a bit when he's angry. A good 98% of the time, this man is caring, nurturing, sweet and sensitive-- but if he is put on the defensive in any way, shape or form- watch out! His typical defensive reaction usually involves him trying to raise the stakes in some way, typically by throwing out some absurd comment accusing me of what I obviously must really want if I'm arguing with him. Usually, he threatens to just flee the scene, since I apparently don't want him around, because I am arguing with him. Obviously, this is a ridiculous conjecture, but it seems that Scorpio men tend to bristle when they feel attacked (whether you intended to or not) and try to sting you as painfully as they can before they flee (which they do because they're very scared that you're going to hurt them). My best advice is to ignore his ridiculous statements during the heat of the moment, because all people- regardless of their sign- tend to say things they don't mean when they're angry. In addition, if you realize that he's just lashing out because HE is the one who's insecure about how YOU feel, it will give you a lot more control internally during the argument, which will allow you to be a lot more understanding during his tirades and give you more time to cool down and not fuel his temper even more.
I agree with hopeful city girl!!! Sounds like my Scorpio exactly.................when he is offended, insulted or angered, he tends to lash out due to his sharp tongue and intent to hurt you before he is already injured or before you hurt him. They are very sensitive soul no matter how strong they seem on the outside. Learn to read beyond the words and understand the hidden messages. Then, you will get to really know him. If his words don't match his actions when not in the heat of the moment, then you can bet on what he does, not what he says. Notice that if you ask him to repeat certain things that he said, he won't, pretend he doesn't remember what he said or dodge it somehow because he didn't mean to say those things. He doesn't want to hurt you, but he is just upset. If he is still with you all this time, don't question it too much. Let him know later how it made you feel, but do try to understand his ways.
i was once married to a scorpio and i did see that their profile is true ..they are affectionate and caring as a scorpion seems to his prey but then they do have that sting in the tail. I think he means both sides of himself . Its rare to get mad but when they do ...wow
If Scorpios feel attacked or taken advantage of, they lash out.
Most everyone says things they don't mean when they're angry, especially Scorpios. Most everyone says things they don't mean when they're NOT angry, except Scorpios. Ask him about his explosions when he's calm. Or, for an interesting twist, ask him about when he's calm while he's on a tirade (sparks will fly, but it can be surprisingly enlightening).
For a Scorpio to not want to involve his feelings goes against everything about the sign. Everything! And obviously if he's that angry, his feelings are involved. So keep that in mind for perspective. Pure conjecture here... but he might be trying to force a major declaration of love out of you. By saying he wants to keep it simple , he could very well be hoping to make you demand the opposite... Scorpios like knowing where they stand with people.
Meh... As for the arguments... probe a bit to find out which side he means. Though it's probably the softer side. As for people making conjecture about issues based on a small paragraph... meh. You know him and know whether or not he's worth it or the good outweighs the bad... no one else does. It's *your* relationship. So suss that out for yourself (but keep a clear perspective on it).
When things are calmed and settled down ask him why he said the things he said when he was mad and angry. You should tell him that he really hurt your feelings with the things that he said to you and that you would like to know why he did say those things to you. Maybe he it is just his way of telling you that he wants out of the relationship. Just be patient with him and try to work things out with him. Give him a little time alone.
Horoscopes are a scam. Signs don't mean anything.
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